How to Turn a Setback into a Comeback
The Rev. Dr. Anthony
J. Godlefski, Pastor
Genesis 50: 15-21
Joseph
Reassures His Brothers
15 When Joseph's brothers saw that their father was dead, they said,
"What if Joseph holds a grudge against us and pays us back for all the
wrongs we did to him?" 16 So they sent word to Joseph, saying,
"Your father left these instructions before he died: 17 'This is
what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and
the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.' Now please forgive the sins
of the servants of the God of your father." When their message came to him,
Joseph wept.
18 His brothers then came and threw themselves down before him.
"We are your slaves," they said.
19 But Joseph said to them, "Don't be afraid. Am I in the place
of God? 20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to
accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. 21 So
then, don't be afraid. I will provide for you and your children." And he
reassured them and spoke kindly to them.
Dear brothers and sisters in
Christ, good morning! I'd like to share with you this morning one of the most
beautiful concepts in the entire Bible. It's one of the most beautiful
concepts in the Old Testament. And it is the crowning moment in the last chapter
in the book of Genesis.
Now, remember the book of
Genesis begins with creation and it ends with the story of Joseph. How many of
you have heard of the story of "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat"?
I'll bet you have. This is that story. And the last chapter, chapter 50, of
Genesis ends with this absolutely remarkable concept which I'd like for us to
consider today.
Here's what happened:
Joseph, son of Jacob and brother of many brothers, is the victim of something
terrible. You see, Joseph's brothers are very jealous of him because they
think that their father favors him high above them. One of the signs of
that supposed favoritism is the coat of many colors that Jacob gave to his son,
Joseph. The brothers are very jealous. They stage a situation where Joseph is
thrown into a well. Eventually he is sold into slavery in
Well, perhaps you know what
happens in the story. Joseph rises up through the ranks, becomes a leader in
Now here comes the wonderful
part. Here is the Spirit-inspired part. Joseph says, "Am I God? Shall I make
my brothers slaves? No. You, my brothers, meant it for evil, but God meant it
for good. I will take care of you and your little ones. Come, live in my
house."
Someone may have meant it
for evil, but God meant it for good. And friends, that's the kernel of truth I
want to invite you to take home with you today. Turn your setbacks into
comebacks. Our God is a God of comebacks. He wants us to come up again from the
setback times.
Do you have setbacks in your
life? I wonder if you do. Take a message from this Bible verse, won't you?
Someone may have meant it for evil, but God meant it for good.
A wonderful black preacher
put it this way: "A setback is a set-up for a comeback." Isn't that
wonderful? I wish I had written that. A setback is simply a set-up for a
comeback. So if you are facing a setback in your life today, take courage from
this Bible verse. Someone may have meant it for evil, but God meant it for good.
Let's look at how we can
turn our setbacks into comebacks. First of all, lift up your eyes to the hills.
I brought a pair of binoculars with me. If I just use them to look down at my
hand, I can't see very much. But if I look out the window, I see the beauty of
the outdoors. Lift up your vision. If you're facing a setback, and it feels
kind of crushing, the first thing to do is to lift up your vision.
Do a little experiment with
me. Find your pulse. Got it? That's a good sign! Put your hand in front of
your face and blow a puff of air. You're breathing! Why am I doing this?
Because, friend, no matter what setback you're facing, you're still alive.
The greatest resource in your life is you. Wherever you go, you take you with
you. You have potential. You are alive. Lift up your vision. That's the first
thing you need to do, no matter what your setback is. When we have setbacks, we
tend to stare straight down. But instead, I invite you to lift up your vision.
The Psalm says, "I will lift up mine eyes to the hills." I want you to lift
your vision from the ground to the sky. It's not the end of the world. There
is hope for you.
Second, imagine a telescope.
This stands for ‘look'. Look for the hidden treasure in the setback. Now, I
know that some of you are going through setbacks that are tremendously
difficult. You've been there; I've been there. But in the everyday setbacks
we go through, look for the hidden treasure.
What do I mean by that? I
know a person that expected to be chosen for an important job. He was in line
for it; he deserved it; he should have gotten it. But guess what? He did not. It
was a position that entailed some honor and entailed an enormous amount of time
and responsibility. He did not get the position, and he was disappointed.
But do you know what
happened? He got to spend time with his family, with his children, with his
friends. And he later looked back on that time as one of the most golden times
in his life. He eventually got a position of responsibility and honor, but he
looked back at that time fondly, because there were treasures in that time for
him. How about you? Are there hidden treasures in this seeming setback? Take a
look at them; appreciate them. Keep an eye out for the treasures that may be
hidden in the setback.
So, lift up your eyes. Know
that it isn't the end of the world. And look for the hidden treasure, the
hidden blessing. In our scripture reading, Joseph tells his brothers that
this thing, intended for evil, was turned into something good by God - and that
many people who would have otherwise died in the famine were saved because of
this circumstance. He was inviting them to look for the hidden blessings. I ask
you - in the seeming setback you are facing - is there some hidden blessing?
Next, the
word is learn. Is there something to be learned from the seeming setback?
If so, then it can never be a total loss. Nothing is a total loss if we
learn from it. Once, in a church I served previously, we had a problem
with the plumbing in a sink. One of the church trustees decided he wanted to try
to fix it himself. He came in with his wrench and got down under the sink, and
he started to turn the bolt, and – guess what? – it broke. And there was a
messy situation.
Now, I tell you this was a
wonderful man, a very bright guy, a Ph.D. who does top secret work for the
American government. I will never forget what he said at that moment: "Oops, I
made a mistake." Isn't that wonderful? I learned from that. This top-notch
Ph.D., a biochemist, who was trying to do a good thing, said, "Oops, I made a
mistake." Boy, I was encouraged by that. All of you Ph.D./ M.D. types can say, "I made a mistake." It's a beautiful thing.
It's not a total loss if
we learn from it. Take a look at that setback. Have you learned something? If
so, you've gained. It's not a total loss. Can I be confessional for a
moment? Talk about learning from one's mistakes, I have plenty of them.
Do you know what happened
after the intermission? It went right downhill. They were crestfallen. I've
never seen such a disappointed group. I gathered them together after that
performance, dear friends, and I gave them a circle hug, and said, "Dear
friends, I want you to hear me. From the bottom of my heart, I am sorry. I will
never, ever, do that to you again. I promise. Because whatever was wrong in the
first half of that show was the director's fault." And I have not done that
again, and I will not.
But you know what? I
learned. And they were gracious enough to forgive me. Things are not a total
loss if you learn from them.
Lastly, leave room for God.
What looks like a tremendous setback for you right now may not be a setback at
all, in the great big picture of things. I'm not talking about your profound
losses, but those things that look like setbacks. Maybe God has bigger plans for
you. God's plans for us are so much bigger than anything we can plan for. Have
you ever had a blessing in your life that you didn't account for? Have you
ever had something really good happen to you that you never dreamed would have
happened ten years ago? You know what it is. That's the way God works. Leave
room for God.
Lift up your eyes. Look for
the treasure. Learn. And leave room for God.
Closing story: Once there
was a man who lived many years ago, and he had a dream. His dream was to become
a sailor in the Navy of the King of England. He was so enraptured with this
dream. He thought about it and he packed his trunk, and he was about to leave
for his journey to enroll in the King's Navy. His plans got fouled up, and he
was not able to become a sailor in the King's Navy, I'm sorry to tell you.
Well, a little bit sorry, not very sorry. Because God had bigger plans in mind
for this young man than to be a sailor in the Navy of the King of England. You
will know when I tell you his name. His name was George Washington. And if you
think about the
Leave room for God, because His plans for you are good. Because He loves you. I do, too. Have a blessed week. Amen.